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Again, apologies.
Will not happen again.
Tess.
Panties are the item closest to a woman's body. They hold all the scent that makes a woman feminine. A panty fetishist can close their eyes and picture the woman who wore them, fantasizes about them, uses them in foreplay, masturbation, and sexual play.
Every woman has her favorite pair. Every day they are discarded, dirty, into the hamper. They are seldom handled by anyone other than the woman who owns them. And panties are one of the most intimate items a woman possesses.
"To have a woman's panties is like having a little piece of her."
Like any fetish, there are varying degrees.
The panty stealing teenager who is curious
The panty pocketing boyfriend who will use them to recreate your latest sexual adventures during masturbation,
The voyeur who will request or steal the panties of the woman he just enjoyed,
The panty wearer who enjoys the simulation of sexual contact when he or she wears the panties of their lover,
The panty bidder who will purchase panties based on the picture of the woman wearing them,
The panty hoarder who will jump at any chance to secure panties, no matter who has worn them
Finally the panty connoisseur, aka the panty obsessed, who has a very specific taste for the panty. Similar to a Sommelier, they are particular about the smell, taste, texture, and even style. These panty collectors can if able, spend bukoo bucks for a pair that is just right.
There are some 'interesting' sides to the fetish as there are in any. In researching, not only are there choices in the person, and the type of panty (ranging from the thong to the granny), but in some cases, the number of days worn, and the kind of wear. Here is an example of a description.
I wear panties/thongs for at least 2 days and no more than 7 days non-stop. For soft dirt, I suggest 2-3 days, for strong dirt, I recommend 5-6 days. You can choose among many options: simply worn, masturbation, pee, and period.
I keep using the wine description for this interesting community, and it is a community. Underwear fetishists take themselves and the panty fetish very seriously, which is understandable as the interest can be misconstrued as pedophilia (sexual deviation involving minors) or paraphilia (general sexual deviation which can cause stress to a source of the fixation).
Let me be clear, the panty fetish is neither of these, and responsible Panty Players are very strict about whom and how the merchandise they sell and or purchase is obtained. An erotic fetish is a sexual arousal a person receives from a physical object, or from a specific situation. A sexual fetish may be regarded as an enhancing element to a romantic/sexual relationship "achieved in ordinary ways (e.g., having the partner wear a particular garment)" This is no different than a shoe, stocking, long hair, long nails, or even smoking fetish.
We all tick to our own clock, and as long as the participants are adult and willing, where's the harm, to each their own.
So, live responsibly, love wholly, and give openly.
Here are some panty quotes for your enjoyment.
"Everything has its beauty, but not everyone sees it."
I can't do the same thing every night, the same gestures... it's like putting on dirty panties every day.
~Brigitte Bardot
I grew up with the mindset that when you get home from work, you go to dinner and watch a movie. I don't want to be going to a club and taking off my panties.
~Blake Lively
It's a trip, but it hasn't crossed over to the point where women are throwing their panties at me.
~Taye Diggs
What's the worst that can happen? If it doesn't do well, I can put on my big girl panties, deal with it, and move on.
~Halle Berry
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Tess
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If you watch pornography, and I admit I do, there is a glaring lack of nipple and or breast play. This happens to be a huge turn-on for a huge portion of the populace, myself included. Could it be because I am a woman? Perhaps, but the truth is once the breast play is over unless it was a good showing, then I will skip the rest of the show. With any typical porn, there are phases. There is the foreplay, the oral, penetration, about three positions, and finally the ever famous cum shot. If you really dig, you can find a variation of this formula, sometimes even with a couple that is really into nipple and breast play for both sexes.
The nipple, for many men and woman alike, can be the most erogenous zone on the body. Yes, the most erogenous, to the extent that if there is no nipple stimulation, there is no climax. Most who enjoy nipple stimulation are pretty set in their ways, but I wanted to explore some nipple titillation that will take us to new levels of eroticism.
Now some extreme games can be played like nipple bondage, suspension, electricity, and piercing - that will be the next step, I am just not there yet-cringe. Don't worry, there is plenty left to discuss.
Let's start small and work our way up, shall we?
Suction - First thought is Ummm yummy. I love suction, there is just nothing like it. Personally, I enjoy a pulsing suction in exception to a constant pull. However, my experience has only been with a partner, so that could change. Suction devices can be strictly for nipples, from snake bite cups to medical vacuum suction devices. There are a plethora of different nipple stimulators, mos, to be honest, are crap-or so I have heard. They look fantastic online and then you try them at home and well-don't believe everything you read.
Temperature Play - this is described as using flames, ice, or other things that can burn or freeze such as curling irons, dry ice, etc. These are pretty extreme. I would rather explore this game with washcloths, freezing, warming, and dripping. Or how about chocolate and a brush-yes warm luscious chocolate-sweeping it over the nipples in a circular motion and then having your partner lick it off is lots of fun. Ice used in the same manner is torturous, deliciously torturous. If no ice is available, a canned beverage can be used and is sometimes better as it is not as slippery and difficult to control. Switching between the two, i.e. a hot washcloth and a cold can, or if you really want to push the limits, ice up the nipples and then drip hot wax onto them. Whoa, Nellie!
Abrasion - rubbing the breasts or nipples with sandpaper, scrapers, or other abrasives (again, ouch)! How about a compromise? The titillation is texture, so try a wool sweater, a wet or dry natural lufa, a soft bristle hairbrush, or the rough side of a new kitchen sponge will work. Now where you have the ying it is good to use the yang like a silk scarf, a fleece sweater, a cotton ball, etc.
Biting, scratching, and pinching - either lightly or taken to an extreme that may bruise or draw blood. We are dealing in the middle ground here, so we are going to say nipping, squeezing, and flicking. These are little stimulants we can take up a notch with comfort. The spiking of lighting through the body after the nip of a lover's teeth is unmatched, so play around, you might like it harder than you think.
Nipple Clamping - the use of nipple clamps, clothespins, hardware clamps, household clamps, hairpins, and so on, or clamps designed specifically for use on the nipples or on other parts of the breast. I have purchased these after much debate. I have vibrating adjustable clamps. I have to say, damn I am loving life. Nipple sensitivity varies throughout any given month, and what may be acceptable one day may not work the next, so you need to be careful, otherwise, highly recommended.
So, now that we have some ideas about what to while in the bedroom, now put them to the test and let me know what happens. Life is a journey, I am all about making it interesting.
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